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Deze maand april heb ik een ‘Groupon’ Lente Kriebels aanbieding lopen: een massage voor vrouwen nu voor €20,- ipv het standaard tarief van €45,-.

Ik heb sinds 5 jaar mijn eigen massage salon speciaal gericht op vrouwen. Ik ervaar zelf namelijk dat als ik heel erg druk ben en geen tijd aan zelfontspanning besteed, ik fysiek behoorlijk vast kom te zitten en dit uiteraard ook in mijn hoofd gevolgen heeft. Hoe meer ontspannen ik ben, hoe happier/gelukkiger ik door het leven ga.

Tijd om even stil te staan en de dingen op een rijtje te zetten. Hoe graag zou je zelf nu eens even verwend willen worden op een schaal van 1-10 met 10 als hoogste cijfer…. ok is het cijfer HOOG…. hoogste tijd voor een waar verwen moment.

De intuïtive ontspannigs massage duurt tussen de 50-60 minuten met daarna een heerlijk kopje kruiden thee en tijd om even na te kletsen. Gegarandeerd dat je weer heerlijk relaxed de deur uitstapt.

Door de massages kunnen vrouwen ontspannen en komen er daarna vele mooie themas ter sprake die hen weer inspireren om nieuwsgierig te worden naar nieuwe ideeën in hun al bestaande werk, eigen business of relaties.

Heb je behoefte aan tijd voor jezelf maar je wil niet een hele dag kwijt zijn, maak dan een afspraak met mij voor een massage. Je kunt via de contact pagina een mail sturen en dan reageer ik direct.

Deze massages zijn alleen voor vrouwen.

Liefs, Carolyn

I went out early(…ish) in the morning with my Nikon D90 and 105-200mm lens

Weather was dry, warm, sunny blue skies with scattered clouds. Perfect!

Enjoy the others below too….

So let’s wish for plenty of sunshine during the day and enough rain during the nights to keep our plants and landscape happy….

Now is the perfect time to get out into the garden and get it completely ready so the beauty can explode and new life can thrill you once again… Spring is the period of new beginnings anyway… also a good time to make changes in your own personal life too….
So get digging and dirty and make contact with the earth… good time to get the mind still and figure out the next path you want to take in your own life…. And most important of all… HAVE FUN!!!!!

Here are my to do’s for April:

● Check for emerging
self-seeded plants and transplant or pot up before weeding and mulching
borders.
● Place saucers under container plants to conserve moisture.
● Dead-heading naturalised bulbs will keep them vigorous and healthy.
● Prick out and pot on seedlings before they become overcrowded,
● Remove side shoots and pinch out tendrils on cordon sweet peas.

● Divide sprouted dahlia tubers; pot up individual tubers with strong shoots
● Repot container plants that are pot bound, gently loosening rootballs before
moving to larger containers.
● Lift and divide overgrown waterlilies, replanting divided plants in aquatic
compost topped with washed gravel in a planting basket.
● Once the soil has warmed up, weed borders and apply a moisture-retaining
mulch.
● Use fleece to protect young growth from frost.
● Stake tall-growing perennials.
● Shorten the straggly shoots on camellias after flowering.
● Rake moss from the lawn with a spring-time rake towards the end of the month.
● Divide pot-grown agapanthus. Though they do like to be crowded, this is
necessary from time to time. Remove from pot and use a spade to chop into two
or four pieces and plant in fresh compost.
Pests and diseases
● Put brassica collars around cabbages and cauliflowers to deter cabbage root fly
and erect low screens around carrots to keep carrot fly at bay.
● The first lily beetles will be appearing around now in affected areas. Pick
off the bright red beetles and squash them.
● Start slug and snail patrol.
● Apply a first dose of anti-slug nematodes (available from www.greengardener.co.uk) once soil warms up sufficiently

In the greenhouse
● Ventilate greenhouses in good weather to prevent a build-up of pests and
diseases.
● Move young plants from greenhouse to cold frame.
● Feed, water and ventilate plants in greenhouses and cold frames.
● Introduce biological controls in the greenhouse.

Fruit and veg
● Sow a small row of salads every two weeks.
● Sow carrots and parsnips outdoors for autumn cropping but remember to protect
both from carrot fly.
● Sow main-crop peas, winter brassicas and beetroot.
● Pot on outdoor tomato plants and plant tomatoes in the greenhouse border.
● Use a spade to cut away the offshoots from globe artichokes and plant them in
well-manured ground.
● Prune plum trees.
● Check for emerging self-seeded plants and transplant or pot up before weeding
and mulching borders.
● Cut back sage growth by half to keep it shapely. If it has become leggy,
prune hard to within 15cm of the ground.
● Prepare runner-bean beds.
● Remove flower buds on rhubarb plants.

General tips and to do’s:

● Dig flower beds to prepare
the soil
● Mulch flower beds with a 4-5cm layer of compost to suppress weeds
● Lift and divide snowdrops
● Plant tubers and seedlings, such as dahlias and sweet peas
● Sow easy seeds now and you’ll reap rich rewards later in the year. Get going
with quick-growing flowering plants such as the endlessly gorgeous cosmos
family. Favourites are:
❀ Pure white ‘Purity’
❀ Pink and carmine centred ‘Versailles Tetra’
❀ Pure carmine ‘Dazzler’
I also recommend adding one or two sunflowers:
❀ Deep wine red Helianthus ‘Chianti’
❀ Creamy-yellow H. debilis ‘Vanilla Ice’
● Prune buddleja bushes to about 30cm to 50cm from the ground.
● Plant out early and maincrop potatoes.
● Sow veg like courgette, marrows, tomato and sweetcorn indoors.
● Plant trees, shrubs and climbers before the weather warms up.
● Deadhead daffodils as soon as the flowers fade, so they don’t waste their
energy producing seeds.
● Start trimming your box hedges and topiaries now, or wait another three to
four weeks in colder areas.
● Thin out old clumps of bamboo to allow this year’s shoots lots of space.
● Sow runner, broad and French beans, beetroots, carrots, cabbages, salad
onions, spinach, herbs and Brussels sprouts outside.
●  Sow hardy annuals, such as calendula and nasturtium, in shallow drills
or patches.
● For summer evening fragrance, sow night-scented stocks (Matthiola longipetala
and M. bicornis).
● Repot over-wintered geraniums, pelargoniums and fuchsias into fresh compost
and feed them every three weeks. Place outside when danger of frost has passed.
● Now’s your last chance to plant your summer-flowering bulbs and rhizomes.
These include hedychium, gladioli, nerines, eucomis and dahlias, lilies and
gladioli.
● Give shrubs and roses a feed of slow-release fertiliser (fish, blood and
bone).
● Start giving houseplants more water.
● Feed citrus plants with a high-nitrogen feed.
● Sow new lawns, repair bald patches and damaged edges.
● Give your lawn its first cut.
● Continue to deadhead spring-flowering bulbs such as daffodils and apply a
general feed.
● Replenish the top couple of inches of compost and mulch on container plants,
and give them a good liquid feed.
● Sow salad, broad beans and peas directly into the soil.
● Keep on top of weeds.

Happy Gardening, Love C

Anyway I’m celebrating spring too with some bubbles tomorrow at the opening of a fabulous idea designed by a friend called Inspiration House here in Arnhem… I wish her all the luck in the world and that many creative people come into her place for workshhops, meetings and gatherings

I will give the website of Maria’s place here… it is in Dutch though…. but a wonderful idea to create anywhere on this planet as it connects people with simular thoughts and ideas on all topics.

I believe everybody should have a copy of some form of it on their book shelve… or preferably a copy in the bedroom.  If you perform these various positions suggested it will for sure enlighten your sex life and can carry you and your partner to a higher level of loving and partnership.

The beauty of Kamasutra is that it is timeless and will expand your pleasure in the ‘bedroom’, taking you on a path that will lead to wondrous ecstasy and erotic dimensions that you previously thought only existed in your dreams.

If as a women you are insecure about your own body and …hey and who doesn’t have these issues… and you have not experienced multiple orgasms it is time to get on the road of self discovery of your genital area….

Orgasms are very important for women to have… as it totally relaxes the body and releases lots of stress… but in order to get to that state it’s very important you know your own body and discover the fertile fields your G-spot and vaginal orgasms.

Cultural constraints, modern media, lovers and friends can all influence how you might feel about your body, emotions and your ability to explore and have an orgasm. If you want to go on that journey of self discovery it is very important you prepare and set yourself into the right mood and plan it in advance so you can have; say an hour and a half minimum to yourself undisturbed.

It is really about just going ahead, doing it and being curious on exploring your body and finding your sensitive areas. I promise you that within weeks of taking this journey as an explorer you will start to really enjoy it.

Unfortunately there is still so much taboo on the subject of women masturbating that most women end up frustrated in their physical relationships with men because it is mostly about their orgasm. In all honesty leaving women often not as satisfied as they would deep down want to be.

That is why I have included the article posted below, which will bring you to some other ideas and hopefully spice up your sex life. For further reading on this topic go to:
Suzie Heumann’s website

If you would like to invest in a really good vibrator and a water based lubricant too then these links below (Holland and England) are good to check out: A
good one in Holland, delivered discretely to your door: Zoemmm or this one Zoemmm2

Combine it together always with a lubricant

Or check the English version: on Sam Roddick’s website Coco de Mer with lubricant

Most important is that you start having fun…. Going on your journey of pleasure discovery….

Love, C

Do click on the photo’s below for some more info….

Can’t wait to delve into fresh strawberries and raspberries again…

photo’s found here

Talking about hectic times ahead… March is just the month in which you have to really start getting out into the garden and de-winter it.

I generally stick to the rule here to not do any drastic pruning and planting until after the 11th March. The all fear of sudden frost attack has disappeared.

It’s a brilliant time of the year to get out into the garden again and take in the aroma of a new spring with new life vibrating all over the place….

So go get out there and take a stroll through your garden or even balcony and make a to do list and use the one below to and pick the chores that fit your place.

Have fun:

Here are my March Gardening tips for to do’s:

■ Continue planting new trees,
hedges, climbers and roses.

■ Place orders for summer-flowering bulbs such as dahlias, canna and eucomis.

■ Sow peas, broad beans, parsnips and carrots.

■ Continue planting lily
bulbs.

■ Order onion sets, shallots and seed potatoes.

■ Cut back hedges before birds start to nest.

■ Prune large-flowered clematis.

■ Start to prune roses, removing dead, damaged or diseased stems.

■ Sow sweet peas.

■ Plant winter aconites and snowdrops ‘in the green’.

■ Keep off the grass during frosty weather.

■ Prune autumn-fruiting raspberries back to ground level.

■ Prune fruit trees, removing dead, damaged or diseased branches.

■ Keep feeding the birds.

■ Divide large clumps of hostas before their leaves start to grow. Dig the
clump up, then use a spade to slice your clump into several sections,
replanting them at their original level.

■ With so much fresh, tender growth around, slugs and snails are in their
element. Deal with them now before your plants disappear before your eyes.

■ Before your garden begins to break into growth, take a last look at its
winter profile. Now is the perfect time to add plants with winter interest,
such as berries or bark, for next year.

■ Get your plant supports in before your perennials start to grow, this way
your supports will be covered before your plants are performing at full tilt.

■ Plant lilies to fill in any border gaps, or in pots.

■ Feed all your fruit trees, canes and bushes with a sprinkling of sulphate of
potash.

■ Cover rhubarb with forcing buckets or jars to encourage long, tender stalks.

■ Prune back the stems of dogwoods, willows and buddleias to produce fresh new
growth.

■ Plant new hedges.

■ Feed hedges, trees and shrubs with a general-purpose fertiliser, then mulch
around their bases.

■ Rejuvenate congested
perennial herbs by dividing the clumps and replanting

■ Dig up parsnips and leeks and heel in until used to allow beds to be
cultivated

■ Prepare seed beds in fine dry weather and cover with fleece to warm up

■ Clean out water butts: a bit of charcoal in the bottom will keep the water
sweet

■ Trim and tidy evergreen grasses and cut deciduous grass back to ground level
before growth starts

■ Prick out seedlings before true leaves develop

■ Sow tomatoes, peppers and aubergines from seed in a heated propagator.

■ Dig in over-wintered green manures in preparation for planting in a couple of
weeks

■ Plant potatoes under polythene for an early crop.

■ Start successional sowing of root and leaf vegetables.

■ Prepare the bed in the greenhouse for planting out tomatoes in April.

■ Cut back hardy fuchsias, lavatera, cotinus and Buddleja davidii to between
75cm and 1m.

■ Prune winter jasmine after flowering

■ Sow cut-and-come-again salads in pots under cover to protect them from the
cold.

■ Plant out rooted strawberry runners, removing most of the flowers – a heavy
crop in the first year will weaken the plant.

■ Sprout dahlia tubers in warmth for dividing.

■ Sow hardy annual flowers.

■ Plant gladiolus corms in well-drained soil.

Happy Gardening, Love C

Of course this topic goes far beyond what I am capable of writing now… but at least it is a beginning and I will make an attempt to start putting my thoughts on this topic to paper! It should be a very interesting voyage…. introducing the art of kama into the lives of women.

Kama translates to pleasure, pleasure of all kinds, including the enjoyment of the arts, games, family, friends, nature and sensual activities. Pleasure was understood to be an integral and very important part of life when the original manual, of the now popular Kamasutra, was written in India more than 1,700 years ago.

Nowadays with everybody being so very busy and the crisis hitting hard at us… it is extremely important to bring ‘kama’ back into our lives and relationships…. and it is the genius of women who are intuitively best at it… who have the task of reintroducing it… all you need to do is to start by tapping into that energy field again…. once you start experiencing it’s joy you will want to integrate it in all parts of your life…. and therefor become far more aware and awake of yourself and others.

Will keep you posted with more info… but if you are interested in any reading material I suggest you go to Tantra and Kamasutra expert Suzie Heumann at this website

Have fun too… preferably together with your partner….

Love C. x

Photo’s found on Patterson maker, musings in femininity, Lou Boos